Jul 4, 2007

Betrayal

One Man,
Love,
Betrayal?

(Accepted that this seems to be the cheesy title of some 'B' Grade Hindi movie. I am not able to come up with something better!!!!!)

The story is at
Betrayal

~Aditya

P.S. (I am opening a can of worms, I know it! If you have a problem with the ideals, we can have a discussion)

2 comments:

Nivi said...

There is a reason y this is a story and thats because it can never happen in reality.

The human heart and the brain is never really mature as it thinks it is.

Relationships are maybe the most delicate of things ever.however well a person handles them after it is broken, there is always giong to a moment, a moment of rage or a moment of mindless jealousy that will ruin it.That's why this can never happen.

we can never grow up to accept infidelity.

aditya said...

@Nivi,

Does marriage mean a license to monogamy? What makes people so immature? I would rather call it insecurity. When a person laments his wife left him for someone else, he is lamenting that his wife left HIM for someone else, him of all people.

When a person is secure with his life, and with the people in it, infidelity is not infidelity. What i mean to say is that if one knows the reason based on which that the people around him function, i will not call it infidelity. I will call it the fulfillement of a desire. it should be the same whether his wife has an icecream on the way home, or beds someone. it is just the fulfillment of desire.

I do accept that level of security is tough to attain. However, it is an ideal. If I may quote a friend, ideals do not exist.

At the end of the day, we cannot base our lives on the actions of others. Infidel or not, it is the emotional attachment that shouyld bind, not the fear of loss of emotional attachment.